Love's Heat

A teasing kiss from her intoxicating lips,

I look deep into her eyes as they hypnotize.
She gives herself to me.
Caressing oh so daring, I undress her inhibitions.
With my caring lips, I explore her while listening to her mesmerizing moans.
My fingers follow her avid contours, exploiting her body's love zones.
Savoring every moment, I satify the need in her as my mouth pleases all her senses.
She softly whispers in my ear that no other man has ever pleased her as I.
Breaking down all her defenses, I command her attention.
Her desire to comply as I enter her beauty.
True love and affection I've been searching for now at my feet.
A love we both desire. Our hearts on fire.
The world stands still as we bask in our love's heat.
~Brian Blackwell

Copyright © 2011 Brian Blackwell

Public Unions: Fiscal Destruction Of The U.S.

There are a myriad of issues that need to be addressed in the United States:  jobs, economy, taxes, illegal immigration. But the most important issue that needs to be addressed is public pension, salary and benefits reform.

Although the aforementioned issues are important, they won't have the collective fiscal improvement to the country that reining in the bloated pensions, salaries and benefits being received by government retirees and employees -- gained through strong-arming of politicians by public unions over the years -- across the country would garner.

Brian Blackwell

U.S. Public Pensions At Nearly $210 Billion In 2011

Did you know that in 2011 the U.S. government spent nearly $210 billion dollars on federal pensions? That's $210 billion dollars of taxpayer money for pensions to those who have worked in some level of the federal government. Isn't it time for them to start paying and contributing to their own pensions like the rest of us hard working Americans?

What's at stake is the collapse of our system of government. Federal employees were never supposed to live 'high on the hog.' Many federal employees receive a monthly payment of $5k or more (public record) when they retire. Many states across the country are suffering from the same fiscal problems (caused greatly by out of control state pensions) as the federal government. 

Government pension plans are much more burdensome than public assistance programs. If federal and state pensions aren't reined in soon, the federal government and state governments won't be able to sustain themselves -- there won't be enough tax revenues to keep the lavish (as compared to most private pensions) public employee pensions going.

Brian Blackwell

"For last year's words belong to last year's language, and next year's words await another voice. And to make an end is to make a beginning."
~ T.S. Eliot

Happy New Year 2012!

Here's to the bright New Year,
and a fond farewell to the old.
Here's to the things that are yet to come,
and to the memories that we hold.

~ Brian Blackwell

Christmas Love Always

Christmas is a time of forgiving, a charitable time, a time for those with a closed heart to open it up freely, and a time for people to think of others as fellow passengers to the grave and not another race of creatures bound on other journeys.

Christmas is a time of love; a time to give love, to receive love. The greatest gift of life is love... and should be given joyfully and received gratefully at Christmas time and throughout the year.

Life is meant to be filled with love. The true happiness of life is love.. loving your significant other, loving your children, loving family, loving those around you.

Do you love?

~ Brian Blackwell

Fewer Getting Married, Health Affects Of Marriage

Fewer people are tying the knot, and when they do they tend to be older, says a report from the Pew Research Center.

Analyzing U.S. census data, the study finds that today 51% of all adults age 18 and older are married, compared with 72% in 1960. The average age for first-time brides and grooms is the highest it's ever been: 26.5 years old for brides and 28.7 for grooms.

The changing numbers could have to do with the fact that more people are living together, staying single or becoming single parents, all factors that are changing the landscape.

Several studies have found that marriage can have a substantial influence on various aspects of health and well-being, but no one is...

Read more at LATimes.com

1 In 5 Women Have Been Raped

Nearly 1 in 5 Women in U.S. Survey Say They Have Been Raped 

An exhaustive government survey of rape and domestic violence released on Wednesday affirmed that sexual violence against women remains endemic in the United States and in some instances may be far more common than previously thought.

Nearly one in five women surveyed said they had been raped or had experienced an attempted rape at some point, and one in four reported having been beaten by an intimate partner. One in six women have been stalked, according to the report.

"That almost one in five women have been raped in their lifetime is very striking and, I think, will be surprising to a lot of people," said Linda C. Degutis, director of the National Center for Injury Prevention and Control at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, which conducted the survey... 

Read more at NYTimes.com

Faith In Yourself

Know in your heart that you have the power and inner strength to overcome
any of life's daily strife that comes your way.
Know in your heart that better days are on the way. 
Love your life.
Have faith in yourself, in your own potential,
in your own innate goodness.
Reach within yourself to find your own unique specialness.
Wake every morning with the awe of just being alive.
Discover the magnificent beauty the world has to offer each day.
Your success you contrive.
Explore and embrace life in yourself as you make your way.
Live life in a positive light and keep the negatives away.
Amaze yourself and rouse those around you to the potential of each new day.
Look with hope to the horizon of today, for today is all we truly have.
Live this day well.
Let a little sun out as well as in.
Your life's greatness will tell.
Create your own rainbows.
Be open to all your possibilities.
Make your life's striking pose.
Show the world your abilities and always have faith in yourself.
~Brian Blackwell

Copyright © 2009 Brian Blackwell

The Real Herman Cain Scandal

Ginger White and the other woman who recently made charges against Republican presidential candidate Herman Cain have histories of making similar complaints against others that were proven to be false.

The same mainstream media that persecuted Herman Cain said in response to proven charges against Bill Clinton, as a candidate and president, "It's his private life. What he does in private is none of the public's business. Let's move on." Yet they couldn't move on from unproven charges against Herman Cain.

Some people think that because the National Restaurant Association reportedly paid $45,000 to one of its employees against Cain is incriminating.

Most people wouldn't part with $45,000 without serious reason. But that is completely different of an organization in the present litigious environment of the United States. An organization is glad to pay $45,000 instead of possible ruinous costs a jury could impose. 

Ginger White

The real scandal of the case against Cain is that the law allows people to bring forth frivolous lawsuits and impose heavy costs on others at little or no cost to themselves. In other words, legal extortion. 

Because our courts do not currently stick to the letter of the law, people who have zero basis for a lawsuit can create enough uncertainty and fear to extort money from people who cannot afford the risk of going to trial. 

If judges threw frivolous lawsuits out of court instead of letting them go to trial, legal extortion would be nearly nonexistent. And if those who bring charges that do not stand up in court had to pay the other party to the lawsuit for their legal fees and time, these games could not go on. 

ABC News reported that Ginger White, 46, has civil judgments and liens in Georgia and Kentucky against her that go back almost two decades – with 11 filed in 2009 and nine in 2011.

According to news reports, White is an unemployed single mother who's been divorced at least two times, who filed a sexual harassment claim against an employer 10 years ago. That case was settled, according to reports.

White is currently being sued by her former business partner Kimberly Vay, according to news reports, who claims she was stalked and harassed by White and was forced to seek a protective order against her. A court date has been set for January in the matter.

The female bodybuilder, who once ran a bicycle business with Ginger White and won a libel suit against her, says the Atlanta woman never mentioned the Republican presidential candidate, who White says was her lover for 13 years.

According to the lawsuit, which was filed in June 2011, Ginger White and Kimberly Vay were partners in a fitness coaching business called No Limit Cycling, and held classes inside the Martin Luther King Recreation Center, which is owned by the City of Atlanta. In November 2010, claimed Vay, White asked to end their partnership, with White continuing to operate No Limit Cycling, and Vay agreed.

On December 9, according to the complaint, White sent a “defamatory” note to a master email list of the company’s clients and to city officials. The email said that White’s business had “come tumbling down [on] the day I invited Kim Vay into my life and my business” and that Vay had turned her “dream” into a “nightmare.”

According to the complaint, the email alleged that Vay, a competitive bodybuilder, injected veterinary drugs into her system prior to contests,” and also said that Vay preferred to date black men but had made derogatory comments about black women’s hair.

Vay’s complaint termed the allegation about drug use “false, malicious, defamatory” and “reckless,” and therefore libelous.

Both women retained attorneys, according to Vay’s account, and reached an out-of-court settlement in April 2011. In June, Vay filed suit, claiming that White had failed to live up to the settlement and that she was entitled to sue for libel. Vay’s attorney Kurt Martin told ABC News that White had failed to honor the financial agreement that had settled the case.

White has two children and was evicted from her Atlanta home in November. She had several eviction notices in DeKalb County, Ga., over the past six years.

Race played a role in the case against Herman Cain -- a combination of the stereotype that black men can't control their sexual urges and the racist fears of some people of black men having sex with white women -- referring to the allegations by Sharon Bialek -- but Cain's hopes of becoming the 2012 GOP candidate were mainly destroyed by politics.

Sharon Bialek

Bialek has made similar charges of inappropriate behavior, which were proven to be false, against other men as she did with Cain.

Bialek alleges that Cain, while president of the National Restaurant Association, sexually harassed her when she was employed with the organization. The National Restaurant Association settled out of court with Bialek for $45,000.

The persecution of Herman Cain has been mostly driven by the Democratic Party's fear over prominent black conservatives. A prominent black conservative such as Herman Cain is far more dangerous to the Democrats than an equally prominent white conservative.

The 90 percent black vote for Democrats is like money in the bank on Election Day. A self-made man such as Herman Cain , who offers an alternative view of the world is a serious threat politically to liberals and Democrats, because if that alternative view has the effect of reducing the black vote for Democrats, the Democrats would be in big trouble at election time.

To the mainstream media, which is predominantly liberal Democrat, a black conservative must be destroyed -- and character assassination is the fastest way to do it. 

Brian Blackwell

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Do women ever make false claims about sexual matters? It's more common than you might think. Studies show that false allegations are made about 20-40% of the time, depending on the study. These sorts of false accusations are usually made in order to get attention or money by appearing as an innocent victim, in order to get an alibi for something the woman has done wrong, or to get revenge on someone who has mistreated the woman.